So, you have been proposed to. Both of your phones are ringing off the hook. The well wishes roll in, and you have never worn a piece of jewelry as shiny as this beautiful new ring. All is well and you are floating on a cloud of love...until the congratulations change to questions. “When is the wedding?” inquires Aunt Martha. “What are your colours?” asks a friendly but concerned acquaintance. “Am I going to be a bridesmaid?” texts your roommate from university.